Changes

Some years stand out more than others for the impact they have on our lives. 1984, the year we moved from the U.S. to Australia was one of those. The year we married, the years our children were born, are others. They often change who we are or how we live our lives. Accidents, celebrations, grandchildren, house moves, graduations, are such big events that the year they happen is forever a marker in our memories. And they often become part of our family lore. If I say October 10th, 1984 to Bob I’ve really said a whole lot more than just those few words.

Sometimes a year can be quite life changing without our realizing it until later, until we look back on it. For me 2007 was one of those years even though I wasn’t so much aware of it on a daily basis. I think I’ll mark 2007 as a year of independence for me. It also feels like a year of separation but I don’t want separation from my family, friends, home, from my life so I’m going with a year of independence instead.

In 2007 Bob was still recovering from an illness and focused inwards. A dear friend left for Abu Dhabi for a year. Two friends went west for a year to build a motel. Another close friend left for Asia for a year and isn’t in communication. Three friends went to work and couldn’t attend our bi-weekly coffee club so it fell apart for lack of attendees. I was spending far more time than usual on my own.

These things and a few others left me standing a bit isolated. Not entirely but enough to be noticeable. And because of that I was more reflective. And if it hadn’t been for that time to think I’m sure I never would have discovered and formulated the product that made Petology a viable company. What I’ve become thankful for today are the things that could have caused the mopes. Instead 2007, my year of change and independence, has become, in 2008, the year of new beginnings. Petology was born and I am hopping with excitement.